MY STORY
I know what it feels like to chase perfection—and still feel empty inside.
From an early age, I was wired for achievement. A straight-A student, a disciplined ballet dancer and pianist, and eventually joined the corporate law world, where precision, high performance, and pressure were the norm, I mastered the art of performing, achieving, and pleasing. On the outside, it looked like success. On the inside, I was unraveling.
For nearly a decade, I lived in active alcohol addiction. Getting sober was only the beginning. What followed was an intensive journey of healing—emotionally, spiritually, and psychologically. I’ve hit bottoms in nearly every area of life: money, love, and self-worth. I struggled with perfectionism, people-pleasing, fear, and the exhausting habit of comparing my insides to others’ outsides.
Even after the external success with the degrees, the titles, and the accolades, I felt disconnected from my own soul. I was doing everything “right,” but felt anxious, unfulfilled, and quietly lost.
When I finally put down the bottle and faced the emotional pain beneath the perfectionism, something inside me broke open. I began to ask the deeper questions:
How do we truly heal?
How do we live from the soul instead of the confines of the ego?
And how do we create a life that reflects our deepest truth—not society’s definition of success?
This led me to the University of Santa Monica, where I earned my Master’s in Spiritual Psychology and a Certificate in Consciousness, Health, and Healing. It was here that I began to free myself from old patterns and remember the peace that is each of our Divine heritage to experience.
Today, I no longer measure my worth by achievement. I live a life rooted in purpose, inner peace, and contribution.
And this is the work I now share with others—especially the women who remind me of who I once was: capable and hard-working… yet quietly exhausted from doing all the right things and still not feeling free.
Your past does not define your potential. The path from pain and struggle to purpose, peace, and prosperity is not only possible—it’s available to you now.
I know what it takes to rise and rebuild, brick by brick. It would be my honor to walk beside you as you do the same.
To your freedom,
Bonne
“Self-advocacy is a process that requires boldness. It can feel uncomfortable and scary, but when we honor our needs and voice, transformation happens. We begin to stand in the possibilities versus the perceived limitations. And as we unlock new levels of freedom and success in our lives, we expand in our capacity to create wealth and heighten our impact in the world.”